• bartolomeo@suppo.fi
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    10
    arrow-down
    1
    ·
    edit-2
    8 months ago

    I’ve noticed a lot of commenters straight away take things personally and think that mentioning something is endorsing it. That kills discussion and turns it into a defensive symantic battle against commenters’ assumptions.

    • wewbull@iusearchlinux.fyi
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      3
      ·
      8 months ago

      A corrollary to what you’re saying is that people assume that because you’ve replied to them, you must be disagreeing with them. Often I’ll agree with a poster but comment to add to their point, only to get chewed out for disagreeing with them when I didn’t.

      • w2tpmf@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        1
        ·
        8 months ago

        This is my experience. I’ll add some additional detail that supports someone’s comment and almost immediately get a “WELL ACKCHULY” reply from them.