Cat per square inch is a good unit

Yes it’s running in my reverse proxy.
Nginx is doing my “client ssl verify” in front of my web services.
You can even do this on a per uri/location.
For example, my nextcloud is open without client certs so I can share files with people, but the admin settings path is protected by client ssl.

Some apps now have support for client certs (home-assistant ❤).
Nextcloud is one of the only apps that’s open without client ssl because it’d be highly inconvenient to share a file link with someone if I had to install a cert on their devices. Plex app never works right for me so I just use the browser. My TV is too old to have old built-in so I have a VM in which I use a browser to watch plex.

Yea my server is running 128GB of RAM, no way I’m making 256GB of swap.

Embrace, Extend, Extinguish.
But also sell your data.

-Meta

I do client ssl verification.
Nobody but me or my household is supposed to access those anyway.
Any failure is a ban (I don’t remember how long for).
I also ban every IP not from my country, adjusting that sometimes if I travel internationally.
It’s much easier when you host stuff only for your devices (my case) and not for the larger public (like this lemmy instance).

I mean they can see your comments in those though

Yea I have an account on both sh.itjust.works and lemm.ee
For the last day or so lemm.ee has been more reliable but otherwise sh.itjust.works was very good too. Ultimately, I feel like this whole thing was meant for having a lot more smaller instances rather than huge ones.

Unrelated noob question, on my end I see your full user: @[email protected] We’re on different instances, fine.
But there’s other people from sh.itjust.works in this thread and it only shows the first half of their handle, like Jakylla and Bernie Ecclestoned.

My guess is they have a display name setup and you don’t?

Second of all, the whole “build my personality to fit in” is exactly backwards.

Yea, I feel like the fediverse is what we make of it. Trying to fake it for a social net sounds sad.
If OP likes emoji, emoji away 🚀🌕
I think your take is a good one even outside of social media.
Be yourself! (Assuming you’re not a serial killer I guess)

Nice analogy thanks. Sure, everyone has email, but most don’t engage with it much and it doesn’t really have communities.
Well, to think of it, mailing lists of old would be similar to communities.

7 days is a lot.
Try and stay hydrated, don’t pass out, get well.

After the self induced constipation, they’ll need the poop knife for sure.