Eskating cyclist, gamer and enjoyer of anime. Probably an artist. Also I code sometimes, pretty much just to mod titanfall 2 tho.

Introverted, yet I enjoy discussion to a fault.

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  • MentalEdge@sopuli.xyzOPtocats@lemmy.worldLap-boy
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    3 days ago

    He’s cuddly as hell, and gets right up in the business of new and old humans without a care.

    Even knows how to play fetch, given I use a toy that he likes to chase when thrown, more than he likes to chew it when caught.


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    Absolutely, but those shouldn’t be overlooked by anyone, and forgiven only once someone has made the effort to unlearn that shit.

    Is the “profound” message here really just that as younger women enter the lives of their aging husbands and then fathers, they tolerate less and less of the historical sexist shittyness, as they’ve grown up a generation later than the previous main female figure in their lives?

    Scoffing when asked to change ones behaviour for the better is not a gendered charachter fault. No-one likes being informed that something they’ve been doing, and consider normal, is bad, actually.

    And that’s not a reason not to improve. The opposite. It’s a reason to embrace self-improvement, and to learn to do ones best to skip the denial phase.

    Something I think most people, of both genders, can be very good at if they want to be.



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    I’m right there with you. I’m utterly confused.

    What is there to forgive? Is thore some inherent shittyness in men that needs overlooking on the part of women, or suppressing on the part of men?

    Or is this just talking about how gender equality as improved with each generation, so as the same dudes age, the younger women in their lives are asking them to be more and more fair?




  • MentalEdge@sopuli.xyztoLinux Gaming@lemmy.worldI've got banned from Apex Legends
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    No. EAC and Battleye developed ways to explicitly support proton, which has to be explicitly enabled by the developer for the game to run.

    Proton didn’t change, the popular AC options did. They’ve had proton support pretty much since the steamdeck launched, and it works great as long as the developer of a game bothers checking the checkbox for it.

    EAC works on linux just fine, and the fact that Apex runs, means Respawn deliberately allows it.