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  • tiramichu@lemm.eetomemes@lemmy.worldSpoon.
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    My grandmother was into collecting thimbles, when she was still alive.

    As a child, whenever I went away somewhere on a trip with my parents and we saw a souvenir thimble, I’d always want to get it for her.

    Looking back as an adult, I’m quite sure now that she didn’t really care that much about the thimbles at all, especially towards the end. What she really cared about was the connection it created, and the relationship with her grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.

    It’s nice to know what someone likes, and to think of them when you see it. And every time I saw thimbles I thought of her.

    In a modern context I have a friend who likes frogs, and every time I see a random frog plush or weird frog toothbrush holder or whatever it is I always think of him and want to get it for him.

    Fads change but I think the reason for having them stays the same. It’s nice to be into something, and for other people to know you’re into it, too :)


  • tiramichu@lemm.eetoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldOlympic anime
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    Slow motion bullet takes about 30 seconds to reach the target during which time we get the inner monologue of every character

    “It’s going to miss! But wait, what’s happening? The bullet is bending in midair!!! Look at his incredible pose! Did he put spin on the bullet!? This must be Free To Play Ojiisan’s legendary hidden technique!”



  • Then I think I was wrong, and you are right.

    As someone not from the US I knew of zelle but never used it, and believed it was a direct competitor to Venmo or PayPal.

    The reason I thought it was its own thing was because it has its own app, and a catchy silicon-valley-startup type name, and a brand logo, and all of that.

    Contrast that to the UK where the ability to send free person-to-person payments has been integrated directly into the banking system for decades, and does not have it’s own brand, or app or anything.



  • Thanks for the context. Here in the UK I never experienced a website that didn’t take payment via credit card directly as a first option - that’s always been there default, with some sites offering PayPal as a second or third way to pay.

    And about punching the numbers manually then well, sometimes a bit of Mechanical Turk works just fine lol! :)


  • I don’t understand the PayPal one either.

    Who is the ‘first party’ in this case? The banking system as a whole?

    If it’s the whole banking system then I’m not sure how that’s solved, because as I understand in the US it’s still not easy to send money to another private individual via the banking system. And there are Venmo and cashapp and such now but they are just other third parties.

    Meanwhile in the UK here it has been possible for decades to send money between bank accounts directly, and free. I still use PayPal though, because my use for it isn’t sending money to individuals, it’s being able to buy things online without creating an account and without giving my card details.

    Maybe people are thinking in phone terms, and the first party is “Apple” or “Google” and the solution is Apple Pay or Google Wallet?


  • I heard about the diaper thing, it’s garbage. Definitely illustrates the point though; Amazon don’t care at all because whether they act or don’t makes no difference to their bottom line.

    Someone comes to Amazon looking for a reusable diaper, they will search and usually buy whatever is near the top of the first page, because that’s just what people do. Amazon make a sale and are happy, they don’t care who the vendor is.

    And oh - Amazon retail has more turnover than AWS but AWS makes more profit.






  • tiramichu@lemm.eetoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldGood point
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    Polyamoury is cool. Cheating is not cool.

    That’s all it comes down to - consent

    If someone needs multiple partners in their life to feel fulfilled, then wonderful, but they just have to make sure that everyone involved is fine with that before they get into the situation.



  • tiramichu@lemm.eetoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldNormal amount
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    Plus all the accoutrements that invariably went along with The Computer.

    A printer and a scanner

    A filing cabinet for all the things you liked to print and scan

    A rack full of CD-ROM disks like Encarta 95 and Ecco The Dolphin and CorelDRAW 4

    A beige container with clear plastic lid for storing floppy disks, that for some reason had a lock on it as if floppy disks were the Crown Jewels