This isn’t about grieving, just assuming the complete absence of your family and all the inheritance.
I’d pay off my medical debt and go back to university. I’m so tired. I just want to learn and stop struggling. I don’t even qualify for my own debt so I have to have it in someone else’s name, being bound to an abuser…
im married so you mean everyone? wife, kids, parents, siblings, aunts, uncles, cousins??? A few times some folks have put together an extended family reunion so all of them? Wifes side of the family too?? I think I would sit at the foot of the stairs and have a smoke although I would have to bum one from a random stranger since I don’t smoke.